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Male factors play a part in about half of couples’ infertility. What he does in the next three months matters.

Male factors contribute to infertility in about half of couples, and sperm take about two and a half months to develop, so changes made now show up in roughly three months. Avoid smoking, heat and testosterone therapy, get a semen analysis if it is taking a while, and be wary of supplement claims.

Two partners cooking together in a kitchen

What matters now

  • Start the 90-day plan: no smoking, less alcohol, keep testicles cool
  • Never start testosterone (TRT) while trying: it suppresses sperm
  • Get a semen analysis at the same time your partner is evaluated
  • Supplements: most have limited evidence

See a doctor sooner if

  • You take testosterone, anabolic steroids or finasteride
  • Past undescended testicle, testicular surgery, chemotherapy or radiation
  • A lump, swelling or pain in the scrotum

Sperm health

Why it matters

The AUA/ASRM guideline on male infertility says infertility is due in whole or in part to the male in about half of infertile couples, and that both partners should be evaluated in parallel.1 Because sperm take roughly 64 to 74 days to develop,2 the habits of the next three months shape the sperm of month four.

Where to start

This page is educational and is not medical advice. Talk to a clinician about your own situation, and seek urgent care for heavy bleeding, severe pain or fainting.

Sources

  1. 1Diagnosis and treatment of infertility in men: AUA/ASRM guideline. American Urological Association. 2024 amendment
  2. 2Spermatogenesis in man: an estimate of its duration. Science. Heller CG, Clermont Y, 1963

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